It is exhausting
Sunday, December 28th, 2008
We didn’t have any family nearby when we lived on the Isle of Man. We did make some very good friends over the years, but most of them were in similar situations and many would head back to wherever they had come from for the holidays. So our Christmas and New Year were, traditionally, very quiet. We would try to find things to do with the kids, but mostly we would just have endless days sitting around the house while everything was shut up.
This was nice for the kids because they got lots of time to play with their new toys. It wasn’t so great for us as we got bored long before work and school got back to normal.
Things are a bit different here, of course. Christmas Eve was church and then my mother and sister came over for a while. Then they were back bright and early the next morning to watch the great present unwrapping. Then it was out for a big family meal on the 26th (which happens to be my birthday), with cake and presents after. Yesterday evening there was a birthday party for a friend of mine, with kids and food and cake and fun. Today we all went to my mother’s, where the cousins and other extended family had gathered for another celebration!
Now the kids are off school for a while and I’m busy making plans for them to get together with this cousin and that friend and whatever. It is wonderful in an exhausting way…or maybe exhausting in a wonderful way?
Many, many years ago I had a plant. It was an Umbrella plant (Schefflera arboricola) and I had it for many years. It was called Elliot. (See end of post for why….)
So imagine my surprise and delight when this peculiarly shaped and wrapped present was brought out of hiding. I guessed immediately, and despite all the comments from my wife about the “perfect present” this was one thing I had not considered, or come close to considering. It was indeed the perfect present - based totally on thought rather than cost. And yes, the kids were really excited about the “new Elliot” too - after all, they’d known Elliot quite literally all their lives.